Saying Goodbye

In the last 6 months I have had experiences in my life were I had to say goodbye. There are always births and death that come with life. Life is always changing nothing ever stays the same. As our planets moves so does our lives. We must realize that we need to dance with this change observe and learn.

Yesterday I took a walk in Point Pleasant Park. Walking up the hill I could see these grey dead trees that were standing over the lush green foliage. I was reminded of Hurricane juan that happened there many years ago. It was a devastation these trees were obviously the dead survivors. Looking at the scene currently you would have never known that there was any kind of trauma that happened there. Lost of plants and flowered bushes were present.

The Planet takes care of itself and of us. Time can heal creating something new and beautiful. Sometimes we should look at Nature to teach us these lessons. Our Ego's ( negative voice in our heads) wants us to stay stuck trying to have some sort of control of endings but that is never possible and we never learn the lesson. Saying goodbye to old feelings and emotions are ways to release ourselves from burdens. We need to forgive ourselves and others holding on to resentment is like continually drinking a poison.

Saying goodbye to loved ones is one of the hardest thing to do in life. What I have learned recently is loved ones even in death never really go away. You can always reach them in your heart and cherish the life that that being had on the planet.
Letting go and observing my ego has made me aware that we are all love and our pain can sometimes reflect onto others.

Observe the negative voice (EGO) and see if it is really true. It is only with awareness that you can observe negative talk and turn it into positive. Goodbye negative, hello love and bliss.

Have a good day!

Nadine